I just love a good party. I love to decorate, get dressed up and socialize. The cooking and cleaning part I could do without! This years instead of fighting about trying to decide whose family we would visit for Christmas we decided to invite them all to our house for our very first party in our new home for Christmas Eve dinner. The added bonus of that is my mom is a great party planner. Since it was not only our first party, but we would also be hosting for 12 their was a lot to do and a lot of stuff we didn't have... Like for instance 2 days before when we realized we only had 8 plates! Luckily Target was close by and melamine plates are cheap ;) I also didn't have enough servingware or dishes, but Mom on the other hand has enough for a party of 50. She brought down casserole dishes and serving pieces and was also nice enough to take me to the Macy's 2 day sale to buy me a few pieces of my own. I love all things Martha Stewart and while most of her Whiteware collection was sold out, I was able to get some great pieces at a great price.
I've helped my mom with many parties over the years and with her help and some serious planning everyone has gone off without a hitch!
Maybe my OCD or my need to make things perfect, but I plan every detail ahead. Yes, and I do mean everything I like itineraries, menus and incessant planning.
There is nothing worse to me than wishy washy people who can't ever plan ahead of time!! They drive me crazy and if your planning goes awry it will be because of someone like that. If you are hiring people to help, make sure they are organized and that you are too.
Step 1- Pick a theme. Also figure out how many people are coming. Obviously this party was Christmas. I don't necessarily mean a theme party, but knowing what kind of party you are having and who your guests will be will help with the next steps.
Step 2- Plan your menu. I pull out my cook books, recipes and my MacBook.
Step 3- Make a shopping list. Once my recipes are together I write my shopping list, I group my items by where they are located in the store. This also helps keep your budget in check so you aren't aimlessly wandering around the store grabbing things. Also a great idea can be to ask your guests to bring their favorite drink and/or appetizer, helps alleviate cost and everyone gets what they want to drink.
Step 4- Plan your serving pieces. This is often overlooked and can leave you with nothing to serve your food on. We always got our menu out and made a sticky note for each dish we would be serving. Then you lay all of the serving pieces out with the sticky note inside them. This will insure that you have enough. Depending on what I'm making I also try to make sure I have the proper thing to cook my dish in as well... Which is how we realized I didn't have a roasting pan ;)
Step 5- Clean and decorate. At the very least make sure the places people will be are clean { like your living room, dining room, and the bathroom}. While it can be hard to keep the kitchen clean while preparing a dirty bathroom is unacceptable! Even if your the type of person who can tolerate a little grim (which I think you know by now I'm not) your guests may not be and will not appreciate using a dirty bathroom. Here is how my crazy brain works... ... If you can't clean your bathroom when you know people are coming over, did you clean your kitchen, is it dirty and disgusting, should I even eat here... Irrational? maybe probably, but I know I'm a little crazy!
Step 6- Prep. this is an important step, but not always possible with your busy schedule. Anything that can be prepared the day ahead, do. It will make day of so much easier and your party more enjoyable for yourself.
Our Christmas Eve Party
My Family
The Dinner Table
Drink and Appetizers
The Dinner
I know I have some OCD* issues so I am not sure this will be helpful to anyone else, but this is how I plan a party and I generally don't have to many issues... except getting people there on time!
{* Just a side note- I recently read an article from someone with what they called severe OCD and they were hurt at how people use the term so loosely. I do not mean to offend anyone with my usage of the term. I have not been clinically diagnosed with OCD and gave never been to the doctor for that or my anxiety... maybe not a bad idea though. The way I look at it is as of now my cleanliness, everything having it's place, my compulsion to add things to the number 28 and anxiety are not too bad and they help me stay uber organized! I do have family members who have OCD and I especially do not mean to offend them. }
Are you a planner or do you throw it together at the last minute?
What is your best party advice?
XOXO,
Annie
























